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| 03/15/06 |
Okay this will be as real as possible. Moreover, it might not be for everyone. In addition, that is okay!
I have been dating on and off for the last five years. In fact, in that time, I have met some wonderful women; also, I have broken some hearts as well as mine.
I feel that it is a great opportunity to learn something about ourselves. Every time someone walks into our lives, we should embrace that moment and enjoy it. Regardless of the reasons, after all everything in this world happens for a reason.
I am thirty-nine years old, last year on my thirty-eighth birthday I truly felt my life was just starting. The last five years have brought some incredible changes in my life.
Because I questioned who I was, and why did I behave the way I was behaving? Moreover, by asking that simple question “Why” my life started belonging to myself. Not what was mentioned to me as a child, not what society says I should have, or where I should be?
I met a wonderful person about four years ago. (My psychologist) So with her help working through this very painful and difficult process. I truly started down a different path, looking and asking why. I left the fire service after eighteen years. That was how I identified myself. However, this job made it possible to stay away from my relationship, my family, and friends. In Aug. 2003, I said goodbye, not only to the job, but also to myself. I have chosen a completely different career path. It fits very nicely. I started working at a salon about 3months ago. I did not go to cosmetology school; instead, I am working as an assistant. I am truly learning the business from the ground up.
This is where I will lose most of you? After all the posts, I have read over the years there is one thing I will not do…pigeonhole! My goodness what some people are looking for both men & women. It is almost as if they do not want to meet anyone.
First, I am far from being perfect, and I have given myself permission to be messy and make mistakes, after all, “I’m human not perfect.” In fact, this post was has been written with the help from word, with all the spell checks and grammar bells and whistles fully engaged! (Still have fragmented sentences)
I am a little beat up, (years of being a hardcore firefighter) but still fit. I do not drink, smoke, or take drugs.
I do try to eat well, however I do like my sweets, why not. I ride a rode bicycle but I am not a cyclist. I do like to hike as a form of exercise, along with trail running. Camping is one of my favorite things to do, however not alone. I do ski, but only once a year (spring)
I grew up in New England, no more cold for this kid.
Okay so here it is. I have zero interest in someone who has a long checklist. I have only been to Italy once, and that was my first trip out side this country. I guess that takes care of the “well-traveled part.” (LOL) If you consider the years of training and education that, I have put in as a firefighter. “Than I am highly educated.” Right now, I am renting, and drive a little Nissan pick-up. In addition, because I have chosen my career, I am counting my pennies. Well that should have knock out about 83% of the readers, which is fine. I know it has nothing to do with me. This is by choice, and I do know that my life is moving forward everyday.
This is what I have to offer. A good person with honest values. I am a person that will show up everyday, and work hard on making the relationship not only work, but prosper. Also, taking responsibilities for my actions. The abilities to express what I’m feeling, and to understand those feelings. I not only care about the people in my life, but the world’s population. I am just a good person trying to make my little piece of the world a better place. In addition, I would like to find someone that we can share our lives together. Please understand I consider myself athletic. In addition, would love to share that lifestyle with someone. I am not saying it dictates my life. However, it is a part of it.
We all know that physical attraction and chemistry is the starting point. I would love to be able to go out for a run or even a hard hike. All I ask is that you are in shape. (I know it is close to that pigeonhole thing)
I know that currently time is valuable to all of us. So please forgive me, but a pic with you response would be nice.
We all have baggage; I am down to a small carry-on. I know my stuff. Please know your stuff.
Michael
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