| Why do the weakest men believe themselves to be the strongest? Those passive, pussy men who can't speak up for themselves, who think they are some great gift to women are so, so exhaustingly boring. Why haven't they learned in their life that something or someone worth "having" is worth working for, worth growing toward, worth communicating with. I am so sick to death of lazy men who let their testosterone get in the way of fulfilling relationships. I know there are exceptions. Males who can recognize an emotion, who can pick up a nuance, who love the subtlties of life that enrich us all. I cannot tolerate one more weak, cowardly male who waits for ME to determine the direction of our relationship including: social plans we make, sexually creativity (that involves SOME understanding of what turns me on!), travel, and involvement in day to day life. Last time I checked, women and men were equally alive on the planet. How did I get in a relationship with someone so checked out? I can tell you one thing - I am sure glad I found this out about you honey, before we had children. THAT would have been a colossal mistake. When I have children, they will know that both their parents continue to grow, while they nurture and love them. You just stay where you are, there, on the couch and enjoy your TV. I'm moving on.
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