Are there any really good guys left, or am I just hoping for too much
Hi there..I am typical, warm inviting lady with a great desire to meet someone ..I have met or come across quite a few men lately and I am not impressed. Please tell me that you are at least 5'9, not over weight, dont send photos that are 10 years old..or 5..a few stats..and one or two emails. Then we should meet for coffee/tea and see if we are compatible.
Please dont tell me that you:
a. live w/your mom..so you cant have people over.
b. work 24/7 dont have time for a relationship..what are you doing here ?
c. have a ex..w/a dozen kids..I love kids..but are you dating or are you raising children? I raised mine. Unfortunately at this time in my life..I dont want to raise someone else's children..If I find someone that I have grown attached to and you have children, I would love them unconditionally, It doesnt take a lot to love kids..(however some of you adults I have trouble with)
d. never return phone calls.
e. make constant excuses about your lack of ability to get to work and get home and have time for friends. You swear up and down that you want to find the 'right one' try being the right one.
I swear most of you men are something else. I have not met or been introduced to one person who is not an 'ex alcoholic' still going to AA and spends all their time in a program..instead of trying to live after 10 years..It doesnt mean that you arent trying..it just means the hurdles are greater. Right now that is a concern for me.
They are on 'prescription drugs'..is there anyone half way reasonable ?
I am not asking for perfection..as I am not. Non smokers non-drinkers preferred.
Will not consider smokes socially or drinks socially.
I would like to find someone who loves the ocean..wants to go to a movie now and then..to dinner..or enjoy home cooked meals.
I prefer that you have morals..I dont want to be a fb..or anything else...submissive..assertive...kinky, weird, off the wall
Just for those of you ..who love to be anal retentive about everything..I am not ranting or raving..I am real..I am honest..I am simply tired of the crap.
We all have baggage..does your fit in the closet in a suitcase? Good leave it there..you can take it out again when you go home. Do you have drama? leave it at home and share it w/aunt suzie..or someone...I have dated a few of you lately and if this is all the bay area has to offer we are all in trouble.
Thanks for listening. I hope you are not intimidated by this ad...do you still believe there are nice girls left on the planet..?? I am one of them
Have a great day..I believe in you all..just keep it real.
I am a wonderful, sweet, loving, kind woman who is tired of drama...I have enough. I love life and want to share my heart. If you are only interested in one night stands got IKEA..I hear they are having a sale. I have a variety of interest and am able to carry on a conversation. I am passionate about many things. Love to write and sing. Intimate moments and conversation. You are able to form a relationship. You are able to keep it real.
I will reply with a photo if you send one. Please please please..dont inform me that perhaps I am meeting the wrong men..duh!!!!
That does not take rocket science.
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