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| The Good and the Bad - Not Perfect but Trying Hard - 35 (SOMA / south beach) |
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| 03/15/06 |
I’ll start with the bad news…. Yes, I’m going to tell you the things about me that I think are my weaknesses and then go into some of my better qualities. It seems that in life people are most often judged by what they lack or by their faults. So I’m going to play into this notion and let you all know upfront exactly why you won’t be interested in me or why may grow tired of me.
Well to start with I’m a 35 year old student. This means that I don’t have a ton of cash right now to spend on fancy dinners and weekends in Napa but in about a year I’ll have plenty of money to do all that stuff. I was in the Tech field and will soon enter the medical field and begin my new career. Even though I don’t have a lot of disposable income, I still go out to eat about twice a week but it’s usually some sort of reasonably priced ethnic place like Indian, Thai, or Chinese.
Going to school also means that I have to get up early and study most evening. I’m in bed around 11 and up at 6 and most nights I have some sort of studying to do. Even with the time constraints of school and life, I still feel that I have enough time left to make some woman happy. If you expect me to go out for drinks every other night it just won’t work. Typically I come home, walk the dog on the Embarcadero, cook some dinner, study, watch TV, go for run, and have a glass of wine and fall asleep. If you are a big social person that always needs to be out with friends, again, it won’t work.
Next on the list is that I’m a neat freak. I can’t stand clutter, nick knacks, junky things, filth and stuff in storage. I like a clean and simple life. I like things in order but I don’t freak out too often when things aren’t to my liking. So I guess you can say this in my major “issue” that I’m working on.
There a few more minor things but this posting is getting kind of long. Now if you’re still interested I’ll tell you why it’s probably worth your time to put up with the above.
Let’s move on to my good qualities.
I am extremely loyal. I’m the type of person that is always loyal to the people in my life. I’m so loyal that I usually put their needs over my own. Your wants, needs, and desires would be of great importance to me and I’ll ALWAYS be there when you need me, unless I have an exam the next day (just kidding).
My goal is to shower the world with kindness, generosity, and compassion. This may sound kind of dorky but I really do practice these principles. I make every attempt to be kind to every person I meet and NEVER consider myself to be better than anyone else. And even without a big paycheck, I still like to help others with both money and my time. Compassion is what makes me the person I am. Life is tough for most people. I know there is a lot of negativity our there and through understanding/listening/observing others I do my best to be a positive influence in their life.
Also, I don’t play games and communicate my feeling very well. I expect the same of you. I’m not looking for one night stands but hope to find a great woman that I can share my life with who values a healthy, strong, loving, and supportive relationship
Most people tell me I’m fairly good looking. I’m 35, 6’, 170 pounds, very fit, green eyes, medium lenght light brown hair and Caucasian. I’m open to any race. I’m usually attracted to healthy good looking women between the ages of 30 to 37, possibly a bit younger or older. Healthy just means that you look and feel good about yourself. Please, please, please be comfortable with who you are, inside and out. A big MUST is that you should live in the city of San Francisco so we can actually see each other as often as possible.
Ok, enough. Please send me a picture and I’ll send you one of me. I hate to say it but no picture = no reply.
Thanks!
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