Formerly, Seeking A Suicidegirl...
Single, mixed, caucasian male seeks girl with a bit of alternative styling? Although I am open to this, I'm looking for long term relationship material. I've grown sick of the fly by night crap and want something real and meaningful. I've dated all types, from the student to working professional, from bartender to real estate agent, but I find myself most attracted to women into counter culture interests, whether it be body modification, music, or art. Typically I go for the tomboy types that clean up very well. Most important to me is that you're honest, trustworthy, have your sh!t together aka "responsible", not afraid of committment or relationships, and know how to treat your man. If you're looking for a bar buddy or someone to keep up with your nightly party schedule, sorry but I outgrew that phase long ago.
More about me: Well I spent most of 2005 dating and ultimately finished up the year feeling like a lot of my time and money was wasted. I watched many of my friends get married or continue on in long term relationships, and wished their was someone special in my life to experience new things and share eachothers interests with. I don't want anyone that thinks it's strange that I've used the internet for as long as I have for dating. I mean it's a great tool, and i'm sure you can understand that it's really difficult meeting single women offline when you don't frequent bars, or have hobbies/interests that don't normally afford you the chance to meet single women. It's especially difficult if you have a corporate job as I do and work long hours. Physically, I'm about 5'11", hazel/green eyes, half Chinese w/Italian, French, Native American, and Scottish mixed in, thick build, dyed black hair which is short and spiked, and I'm somewhat heavily tattooed, but that would depend on what you consider a lot of ink. I get "cute" or "hot" quite a bit, but more cute than anything. I think at 31, it's nicer to hear "hot" honestly. My best best feature would probably be my lips, and great smile to go with it. I'm a casual dresser, extremely fond of jeans and t's, but love busting out my Calvin Klein & Kenneth Cole when appropriate. I was working full time Mon-Fri for a well known household name, but I've since been laid off, and am now enjoying the benefits of my severance package and have plenty of alternative sources of income to keep funded. I share a brand new condo with 1 pretty cool roomie I met here on CL last year. As far as my interests are concerned, I'm a serious art fan, mostly pop art and low brow art, tattoo art, pin-up, graffiti, and photography. I love classic cars, mainly hot rods & kustoms, and own a pretty fly ride that has won numerous awards at shows all over California, but believe it or not, I don't use it to pick up women, because honestly I'm not trying to attract women that are hot for material possessions. Ya know what I mean? I want someone interested in me, and not in my car. Among those interests, I love to travel If I can find the time or afford it financially, camping, video games, movies, music, golf, poker, sporting events, social events, theater/performing arts, cuisine, and romance. I guess I'm sorta a Travis Barker looking for his Shanna (my fav show). However, I'm not looking to rush out and get married and have kids, and hopefully you aren't either. It seems many women at my age feel like theirs a deadline for these events to occur, and I don't think that's a good attitude. I've seen too many failed marriages and deprived children that I don't want be in that situation.
I'm very open minded, but I think I can be pretty picky as well. Little things tend to bug me like poor spelling, improper use of grammar, and manners. Women that are sort of in love with the novelty of the "bad boy type" annoy me, and if you consider yourself high maintenance, please move along. I pretty much try to avoid confrontation and I despise drama, but it seems a lot of women can't function in a relationship unless their's plenty of drama and controversy to fuel the fire. In all reality I'm a sweet and often too nice guy that usually gets sh!tted on in the end. Personality wise, I have a pretty good sense of humor ranging from dry to sick and twisted, but I'll admit I'm no comedian, just someone that loves to laugh. I can be pretty quiet in some social situations, maybe even a bit brooding and introverted sometimes, but it really depends on my comfort level. What do I like in a woman? A good balance of everything for sure! She has to be able to interact with my friends (whom are like family to me), or be content spending an evening indoors. Be passionate about something, loving, intelligent, indpendent, and sexy. Little things like a phone call asking me how my day was, and/or a comment like "I was thinking about you" are such a turn on. Communication, the ability to compromise, and physicallity is the key to a great relationship I feel. Like I said previously, I'm really a romantic at heart, and I love to spoil and be spoiled in return. I'm pretty affectionate, am probably the first to initiate PDA, and have a very healthy libido. A couple other things I should mention.... I'm 420 friendly, and casual cig smoker from time to time, but generally quit. I don't drink much, and prefer if you didn't either. I practice good hygiene, and am far from a slob. I love kids, but am not interested in being a father, and historically haven't had many positive experiences dating women with children, but I won't rule out the possibility of trying again. Physically I like height-weight proportionate women, brunettes, and pretty eyes, but I am open, and nothing is set in stone. I'm sorry, but BBW, women that consider themselves thick, and/or have bigger arms than I do, I'm not attracted to. Please provide clear and current photos for exchange, with at least one full body shot if possible. You don't have to be athletic or a gym member, because I'm certainly not, but call me traditional, call me what you will, I like to be the bigger of the two in physicality.
You can find me on Suicidegirls.com as SuperbOne and my playful and not so serious MySpace profile is www.myspace.com/kustom58impala, and that has some pics and interests listed. Please, no MySpace/meat market junkies! Thank you for some of the compliments I received, although a few of you seem to miss the point of the ad or just simply don't have a clue to what you're doing. I'm not here to kill your boredom or solve your problems. I'm looking for a potential candidate to date that's looking for a balanced relationship with someone of equal intellect & intelligence. Oh, btw I'm open to dating women not living in my immediate area, but must be willing to share commuting duties if it should become serious.
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