Not sure if you fully read & understood the OP's post:
Since she specifically negotiated NOT to have sex, why would she bring condoms? ("we were just going to hang out...I told him this explicitly")
She set a boundary; he chose to ignore it. That's crappy, & not her fault.
Perhaps you could un-jump down her throat.
That said, can we leave the male griping (& griping in general) off this WOMEN FOR WOMEN PERSONALS board?
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