You wonder why men would respond to a post stating that you "want to get fingered". Let me explain it to you as if you are an actual 28-year old lesbian woman. "Get fingered" sounds exactly like junior-high school talk. Adolescent males (in mind or actuality) are drawn to explicit sexual invitation. Duh! If you talk like a horny teenager, you are likely to attract horny teenage boys of all ages. Women and girls who express outrage about nasty MALES invading this "women's space" are living in fantasyland. This is NOT a woman's space just because "it says so" or women wish it were so.
So, if you want to attract WOMEN with the goal of a real-life sexual encounter taking place in person, you might want to tone down the title a little to sound more like an actual grown-up woman. The same message goes for women who post pictures of their genitals. It's nice to be so "sex-positive", but don't act all surprised by the kind of responses you'll receive.
Craigslist personals board is wide open to the whole world and is absolutely free of charge, and best of all, it's ANONYMOUS. ANYONE can and does post on any category they wish. There are NO external controls on who reads, posts, or responds, so readers respond to whatever attracts or annoys them with no social or financial consequences.
Oh, and in case the poster is NOT really a 28-year-old "les-bi-an", but rather is a 14-year-old boy, you need to read more of the ads here to get a better sense of how women talking to other women sound before you can hope to attract responses from anyone other than sweaty little dudes. Plus, you'll learn a little about women, which will benefit you when you get up the courage to turn off your computer and ask a real girl to the movies or something.
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