I've been posting on here for a few days days, and have a dilemna. I want to find a normal, somewhat innocent girl next door type, to work out an arrangement with. However, I'm wondering if all of the women who use craigslist in the erotic services department are truly "pros". I know lots of people use the term "non-pro", but just the fact they know that term makes them more of a pro than I'd like.
Many girls know the lingo way too well, or send me to a website with rates, but call themselves a non-pro. This is not what I want. I don't want them to use terms like greek, fs, bbbj, etc, as if they're everyday dictionary words.
Of course, there are other females who respond to ALL of my posts, which makes me realize that they are on here 24/7, responding to and having sex with everyone who will pay. You know who you are...
I want to find a girl who is very curious about having a sugardaddy type relationship with someone. But I want someone who doesn't do this regularly (and would prefer if it's your first time). Maybe you just recently discovered craigslist, and have curiously been reading through the erotic services and casual encounters ads, thinking "hmm...I wonder what this would be like". I'd like you to actually be attracted to me, so that it's at least somewhat pleasurable for you, as well. I don't want you to just lay there and hope it's over soon, so you can collect your money. I don't want you to be a druggie, or to have a messed up childhood. Actually, a messed up childhood is okay - that's not your fault, afterall. But please don't have too many sob stories for me about your adult life. I don't want to hear about a boyfriend who beats you, your mean mother, your roommates who overdose on drugs, etc. This isn't the type of girl I want to have the arrangement with.
I want an openminded, nice, easy to get along with girl, who needs some extra money. I don't want you to be overly eager to jump into this, either. I want you to be skeptical. I want you to ask all sorts of questions about me. Because I want this to be a relationship of sorts. Yes, sex is my main priority, but I want to have sex with someone who I like. I want to be able to have a conversation with you, enjoy the occasional dinner with you, get turned on when we're making out, or when I'm at home thinking about you. I don't want to feel like I'm buying a service. I want to feel like I'm helping a friend out, and she's helping me out at the same time. Ideally, nobody you know would ever imagine you'd do anything like this. Because nobody would ever think I'd do this. I seem like the nice, normal guy next door. So, maybe this is too much to ask...but if you feel that you fit into this scenario, please write me.
About me - I'm 31, 6 feet tall, 210 pounds, brown hair, green eyes. I'm married, but lately I've felt I need some freedom. I need to enjoy someone new. I need someone I can cuddle with, and share my feelings with about my life...and she can do the same.
As for money - I can help you with whatever you need help with - rent, bills, tuition, car payment...just let me know what you need and I'll help. I want to make sure we're both satisfied fully. I don't want this to turn into a "for sale" type thing, where you expect $500 every time we meet. I don't want you to think of me as a benefactor or your wealthy sugar daddy. That just seems to cheap or dirty. I want a mutually beneficial setting where you can trust me enough to know I'll take care of you, and I do the same.
I have pictuers. Please send one of yourself and I'll reply with mine. If you have naked photos of yourself, please don't bother replying. I want only the women who only have face or full body shots...but haven't gotten photos professionally made to solicit services on craigslist. I am looking forward to hearing from you soon!
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