I apologize in advance for the length of the ad, but I ascribe to the philosophy that it’s better to invest some additional time up front, in order to save time in the process. I don’t want to waste time, mine or yours- so I will try to be real clear what I am looking for. If you need to categorize this (which is not a good sign..) think of it as friends with benefits, both physical and mental. So here goes:
What I am Looking For
I am looking for a women, college student or teacher, to stimulate both my body and my mind. I realized recently that I am not getting enough mental stimulation in my life. It is one of my passions. There is something about intelligence, wisdom, and wit that just turns me on. I am looking to get together 1-2 times per week. No pressure, complicated expectations, games, etc. What I am looking for basically falls under, companionship, passion, and intellectual exploration.
Mutual Respect and Kindness
I am obviously not one of those people who believes that all sexual acts must be imbued with love. But I do want to care about, trust, and respect the person I have sex with. Kindness, compassion, and the spirit of mutual giving matters to me. The term casual sex has always confused me- there is nothing casual about physical intimacy. To be clear, I do develop an intimate friendship, that is one of the important components of my life.
Types of Activities
I would like to get together and, hike, bike, run, take walks, watch movies, rent DVDs, have lively discussions, cook, eat good food, have great sex, hot make out sessions , hold hands, cuddle, exchange massages, explore the area.
Intellectual Areas of Interest (in no particular order)
World and American History, cultural anthropology, international relations, philosophy, psychology, sociology, the civil war, economics, business, law, mythology, art, theater, logic, world religion, and literature.
Things that I Enjoy
Nature, laughter, beauty in all its forms, sweating (both in bed, or in the mountains),Wonder, paradox, dogs, kids, camping, flowers, travel, classic rock, NPR, books on tape, chocolate, pizza, red wine, Sierra Nevada Pale Ale, Thai Food, Sushi, the scent of rain, Great Sex, unconventional people, adventure, the Sopranos, Sex in the City, the New Yorker, the pursuit of truth, mangos, novels by Tom Robbins.
About Me
I am an average person, in the mist of an extraordinary life. I have lived in Europe (grade school, Maui (high school), Boston (graduate school), and many points in between. I have traveled to over 70 countries around the world. I am well educated with a bachelors degree from Berkeley, and a Masters degree from Harvard. I have biked across America, from coast-to-coast, and hiked the entire Appalachian trail. I have watched the sunrise over Machu Piccu, Anchor Wat in Cambodia, and the Taj Mahal, and the full moon over the Himalayas, Masada in Israel, and Tikal in Guatemala. I have slept under the stars in the Sini desert of Egypt, and in the shadow of Kilimanjaro in Kenya, and marveled under Aurora Borealis in the Artic Circle in Alaska. I am not bragging, just sharing some of the highlights of my personal journey, and the forces that have shaped my life. I am kind, gentle, giving, polite, passionate, sexually adventurous, intense, cerebral, logical, adventurous, determined, and grounded Physically, I am of average height, stocky build with extra weight. I am more exotic than conventionally attractive. I have beautiful eyes, a nice smile, silky soft skin, and broad shoulders While I lead a very active physical life, I am no underwear model for Calvin Kline. Oh, and I am 42 years old. I have lived a very full life so far…
About You
Don’t worry, I am not looking for my clone. If you are a 22 year old college student, you haven’t had the time to explore all of your interests yet. I am open to ages 18-50 (really age doesn’t matter to me). Any body type, just feel beautiful inside, be reasonably active, and comfortable in your own skin. I have discovered that chemistry and passion comes in all shapes, colors, and sizes. Any race, religion, or political orientation is fine. Being a good kisser is NOT optional (have you EVER had a great lover, who was a bad kisser). Must be PASSIONATE about something in life. Obviously, intellect and communication skills are a must. A strong sexual appetite is a plus, being a passionate lover is a necessity. Your intellectual interests need not reflect mine, as I hope to learn and grow from our differences as well as our common interests. Just be you, be real, and be willing to explore. And please be in the Santa Cruz area, life is too short to spend a lot of time commuting.
And by the way, I am open to the natural progression of the relationship- we are people
Thanks for reading my short novel, and what ever happens I hope that you find whatever your looking for in this life.
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