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| Intelligent, Sensual BM Seeking Same in SWF/SLF - 44 |
| Cars & Trucks, Etc. : Trucks : International |
| 03/15/06 |
I’m still not finding what I am seeking here and based on that, I am going to tweak this ad even more. This should really not be this difficult.
*****PLEASE READ VERY CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING*******
I am a black male, 44, 5’10”, salt and pepper hair, average body. My good friends describe me as fun to be with, witty, good-looking, sensitive, intelligent, and concerned for mankind.
I like to cook (and am very good at it). I am a big movie buff (I’m at the movies at least once a week and try to make the major movie festivals every year – in fact, I have plans to make the Toronto and Chicago Film Festivals this year). I enjoy good wines (especially Pinot Noirs and Red Zins), a good book, and fine dining. I am not an outdoor person (so if you want someone to camp or hike with – I’m not the person), although I do enjoy going to various festivals in San Francisco and the Bay Area.
My politics is left-leaning (I did not vote for Bush and you did not either). Along with my 9-5 job, I also head an international think-tank that I formed 13 years ago that focuses on women and children’s human rights. I am well-traveled (having spoken in several countries on the human rights abuses of women and children), well-read (although not as much as I would like to be), a published author (6 law review articles, 5 social science articles, 1 book) with three other books in the works. I am not afraid to speak my mind and I do not mince words.
The woman I am seeking will be White or Latina (my ad, my preference – sorry if this offends you). The age range that works best for me is 30-45 (give or take 2-3 years). You have a regular life (9-5 job, interests, hobbies, etc.). You should be of average build. You are looking for something more than a “friends first” type of relationship (I have my reasons for this and will tell you if you ask). You will have time to invest in “us” as a couple (meaning that we spend at least 2 date nights during the week (or more if we agree on that) and spend weekends together – within reason, of course). You will have a very, very, very high sex drive (I do) and want to have sex very, very, very often (very non-negotiable point – if this bothers you, move on) and will be open-minded enough to want to explore other sexual or sensual avenues (play parties, Power Exchange and the like) (also non-negotiable). If you have to ask about this, are unsure of what this is, or feel in anyway uncomfortable, this is not the ad for you to answer.
I’ve been running this ad since the first of the year more than the fair share of responses for a M4W ad. Yes, I am serious about having a LTR (this is non-negotiable). Yes, I am serious about wanting a woman who has a very, very high sex drive (also non-negotiable). That is what I want and that is what I feel I deserve. You should be open-minded enough to discuss these issues or you are not the one for me. I’m not stating that this will be a sex only relationship (it will not be), but this is one factor that I will not negotiate on.
Don’t waste my time or yours if you are not serious about wanting to form a relationship that will go into the long term. You should also be serious about meeting within 2 emails and 1 phone call.
Please send a pic with your response and tell me why you answered the ad. You should also show me in your response that you did read this ad entirely. Since women seem to insist on seeing a pic first, I will provide it. If you do not send a pic, I will delete the email without reading it. It is only fair.
Despite the tone of this ad, I am really not an asshole. I am just fed up with all of the games and lies that people seem to want to play here. I know what I want and I am going to get it. It is that simple.
If this ad does not appeal to you, please go to the next ad and do not waste my time. And do not send me criticisms about who I should be dating or the tone of this ad. I am also not interested in discussions of why I have posted this ad, how it should be worded, or words of support. This is CL and in 2006 I feel that I should get the woman who is best suited for me. And if women can do this on W4M ads, I should have that same right.
Good luck with your search.
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