I'm sitting here at work, on my lunch break, clicking on all the M4W ads that have a picture attached. It's a little like window shopping. . . you know. . .I don't really need one, but if I see one I like that's a pretty good deal. . .well, maybe I'll go for it.
Anyway, I'm sure it helps guys, if you include your real picture, not a cartoon, or a picture of Hawaii.
What I find amazing is the number of guys with goatees and baseball caps. I mean, to me, this is NOT ATTRACTIVE. You could be a very good looking guy, but if you dress like that, well, it makes you just a little bit LESS. Kind of like if I posted a picture of myself, in a pony tail, no make up and overalls. I'm an attractive woman, but I'm sure going to get passed up in a picture like that.
I know some women like that goatee/baseball cap look. But really ladies, how many of you really do? Perhaps I'm wrong to assume this but, that look immediately says to me "baseball cap. . .means I don't have hair, and don't want to grow up", goatee means "I don't have hair on my head and I think this thing on my chin makes my face look less fat."
In addition to that it's a fashion that says "I'm doing the same look as 3/4 of the other guys, I kinda go for that white ghetto look, etc" Who likes this style? Not me. Ladies??? Really. Who likes it? Heck, I'd consider going out with some of those guys if they'd just shave that thing OFF!
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