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| Empowering ourselves as women, experiencing our alter selves... (santa cruz) |
| Farm & Horses : Training |
| 03/15/06 |
Are you a controlling woman who dreams of submission but is afraid of admitting it to yourself let alone anyone else, and yet your dreams and fantasies don’t go away? Is your life largely about controlling others and you feel in need of balance?
Consider this common thread about women such as yourself. They are givers who thrive on intense, intimate and emotionally open relationships, and are capable of intense joy. They have a fluidity of self enabling them to easily adapt to changing circumstance. They are playful and take pride in their accomplishments. They learn to accept themselves as they are, knowing that while they culture values, independence and self sufficiency, they do on the other hand have strong dependency needs. Most long to be the object of intense and penetrating understanding and when they realize their nature is truly understood and they are held in a loving and firm frame, their devotion becomes almost limitless, something they have an enormous capacity for which, when realized, springs from their service to their beloved and/or their Master/Mistress. They also have a very strong sixth sense about people and they come from working in fields such as lawyers, corporate CEO's, office managers, social work, nursing, medicine , counseling, etc. By and large they share the same intense shame when criticized, and intense pleasure when praised, leading very often to long periods of self criticism and unhappiness.
Consider putting yourself in the hands of a Mistress and experiencing the neglected side of your true nature to achieve greater balance and fulfillment in your life.
As your Mistress I offer the opportunity for balance in your life and the opportunity to experience being that object of intense and penetrating understanding whilst held in a loving and firm frame. I teach you to accept and empower yourself as you are by teaching you how to relinquish control and to experience fully your own natural need for counter dependancy. I do this not through unnecessary pain but rather through loving care, attention, observation, and setting specific tasks according to each woman's needs, and exploration into fantasies through play, interaction, and obedience training. It is through the ability to completely relinquish all control to a safe and caring “other,” that the controlling woman can truly find balance and oneness with life. It is the attainment of no mindedness that empowers her and through which she realizes and accepts whole heartedly her own uniqueness and being as she fulfills her need to be of service to others as a dynamic and whole woman no longer experiencing shame and unfulfillment. This is the balance all controlling women need to become truly empowered and fulfilled in their both their careers and their lives.
I understand why, having experienced both the tension of high powered controlling of others and the release of total submission, some of us so sorely feel a need to submit to another, and how, in both experiencing our submissive nature and our dominating or controlling nature we become more whole, balanced and dynamic. I am a spiritually aware Mistress, understanding that for many women this can be a deep awakening and that by embracing of this hitherto unrecognized aspect of their true nature and that by relinquishing all control they not only find great joy, balance and inner peace, they also find increased abundance and happiness in their personal and career lives. I am an extremely safe haven and teacher for women to realize themselves more fully and to enjoy their own bodies and release all their latent inhibitions to attain a progressively fuller and increasingly enhanced life.
One other thing. If you are cynical enough to believe that this is all about sexual gratification then please reconsider. This is about women empowering women and certainly our sexual freedom, knowledge and ability are enormously empowering when liberated. If any of you who read this are at all interested in what you have just read or in womens sexuality, be it woman to woman, bi or heterosexual, I encourage you to email me. I have many other contacts on a wide range of womens sexual interests and needs.
If the above seriously interests you, please contact me for further discussion.
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