You might say I am interesting, or you might say that I embody many contradictions -- you can't say I'm boring. Telling you a lot about me seems like it might be the easiest way to find the right you, so here are a lot of paragraphs that begin with 'I...' even though what I am interested in is you!
I am responsible and grounded at the same time that I am wildly passionate, open and adventurous. I am fiercely loyal, honest and caring.
I have been a vegetarian for all of my adult life and I meditate regularly, but I also sometimes enjoy shooting guns on the firing range (or in the desert). More often I enjoy loud rock music (and the symphony, and electronic music) and movies with things that blow up (and even those with subtitles).
I don't like commercialism and consumerism, but I'm not militant about that, and I work in advertising. I enjoy the creativity. I have always worked with technology (and was once a software engineer), and have also been an author/editor/publisher and a personal trainer.
I love animals but don't want to live with any (I have allergies, but also don't like the hassle). I also don't want children.
I am a generous and experienced lover. Sometimes gentle, sometimes fierce, always passionate and interesting. I love exploring, and I belive that sex should lead to deeper connection (emotional and spiritual), but there are many paths to get there, from the new-agey to BDSM. I don't have any particular fetishes that need to be fulfilled, so who I am and what I need tends to be different depending on who my lover is (so don't be afraid, unless you like being afraid).
I'm not jealous, and I don't have traditional ideas about what relationships must be, though I am always completely honest and keep my commitments (and am not afraid of commitments). I've always been friends with my lovers, and have stayed friends with most of my ex's.
I have enjoyed living out of a backpack traveling the world, and have spent years here and there intentionally making ends meet with very little money. I still like a fairly simple lifestyle with little clutter, but enjoy the best of the things I do have. Time with friends is more important than anything money can buy. I enjoy fine dining at times and appreciate the wonders of a good wine, but also love the quest for the ultimate pizza and the perfect cheap burrito). I like hearing a good sound system, would rather type on a high end computer, I drive a motorcycle and enjoy fast cars.
I don't care much for watching sports on TV, though I did enjoy working with athletes at one time, do sometimes watch the Giants through the fence for an inning or two, and I do make an event out of the SuperBowl (especially the commercials). I like making an event out of going to the movies.
I laugh a lot. I'm funny (when I'm not trying to be). I have a childlike wonder and don't take the world too seriously (except when I do). I believe in fighting for what is right, don't mind rocking the boat. I believe in treating people well, but I don't believe in being proper.
I'm a morning person, I enjoy waking up early. I love breakfast and brunch. I enjoy spending the whole day in bed with a lover, especially away somewhere.
I look "normal" these days, but I've worn a green and blue mohawk, and I still have a pierced ear and a little ink.
I am attractive, and can share a picture if you insist. I do like beautiful women (as long as that is not their only asset), but I care much less about what you look like than who you are, and don't care about seeing a picture before I meet you. I have fallen in love with women of many shapes, sizes and ages.
I don't believe in finding a perfect person, we all have flaws. I know I do, and I expect that you do, too. A couple should learn to accept and to work with each other's flaws and to support each other's growth (walking the line so as not to slip into trying to change each other).
I'm 37 years old. I have abundant light brown hair and hazel eyes. I'm six feet tall, and I have strong, broad shoulders. Regardless of how much you way, I'm likely to literally sweep you off your feet.
I want to fall in love and develop a long term relationship with spiritual and emotionally deepening connection that leads to ongoing mutual growth. Tenderly snuggling and holding hands and making goo goo eyes at each other. I want to tear each other's clothes off and make wild passionate love for hours, leaving us both spent and heaving. Now and 50 years from now.
Who are you, and what do you want?
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